There are many qualities that people associate with “success” and “making it”. These can range from bravery to cunning to vision. If you search Youtube you will find a ton of videos, usually motivational in nature, describing many qualities of people who have made a decent name for themselves. Personally I indulge in a lot of these videos and tend to cherry pick what I can from them. Once thing I’ve found that rings true though, for myself and others, is what I consider the golden quality. Perseverance.
I won’t launch into a full on rant but simply tell you a story. Once at a previous employer, I worked long nights on third shift, weekends of course. During this time things would drag. I mean really drag. Have you ever had 20 minutes that seemed to last 2 hours? Of course you have. Well at the time I worked with a guy who was doing something pretty similar to what I did not long after, he was changing his mindset, body and relationships to better himself. One of the greatest things he said to me, probably the only thing that still rings in my mind is this:
No matter how long something seems or permanent something can seems: nothing can last forever. The morning will come and you will leave, why act like it will last forever? Instead do what you can and don’t concern yourself with time.
I’m paraphrasing of course but the sentiment is the same. Nothing, no matter how long it seems, can last forever. This is a bittersweet truth but a powerful one when we are stuck in a situation we don’t like, feeling as if it could last forever. On the other hand when things are good, it’s easy to use this to become frantic about the idea that good things can’t last forever either. Instead we can use it to say “hey, I’m here now, it can’t last forever so I’m going to enjoy this fully.” Either way, having the solid idea that things come and go will help you see things in a better manner, good or bad.
Of course this isn’t the greatest quality but one I have found to be very helpful. If you’re thinking perseverance sounds too complicated just think of it like this: patience. It’s simply having the patience to go through a situation no matter the circumstances.
What are some of the great qualities that have worked for you? There are a ton more than have been a cornerstone for people to better themselves and those around them. The key is to find one you are good at, build on it and find out what you can really do!





